Safe Place For Male Survivors Podcast

Episode 54: Jumpstart Your Healing CPR

Coach T needs a chill pill this morning.  He returned from the conference on fire. He shares meeting with survivors in Dallas, TX and the almost mini-workshop he did on the fly. Also the Be Seen, Be Heard Workshop he's going to do November 18-20, 2021 in Sacramento, limited to 8 participants who really want to be there to work some abuse challenges.  Contact him and register.  #safeplaceformen  www.safeplaceformen.com 

Episode 53: I Can‘t Remember All the Details

Coach T starts with a hectic morning,  his Hollywood survivor guest is no show, a family member experiencing COVID on a ventilator, and a survivor stressed because he cannot remember all the details of the childhood sexual abuse.  Coach T does a quick refresher on fragmented memory.  He invites survivors in the Dallas, TX area to meet Oct. 1-3 during his speaking engagement.

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Episode 52: the gift that keeps stealing and taking

This morning Coach T shares a letter from the partner of his client. The partner shares the devastating havoc the porn and sexual abuse created in their relationship. Coach T shares the strategies he used to get results with this client where others could not. The next cohort for the program starts next week.  www.safeplaceformen.com/program

 

Episode 49: Understand Your Critic

Coach T us up with his latest exploits and the launching of Safe Corner on Instagram.  Smoke from the surrounding fires. How the online coaching course is accelerating recovery time. Then he drops a little knowledge on understanding your inner critic.  Find the link to the video for Safe Corner on his instagram page.  Cheers!  https://www.instagram.com/safeplaceformen/

 

Episode 48: Breaking My Abuse Code

Thomas talks about the next online course & coaching program being launched.  He shares his 20 recovery intentions.  He encourages all survivors working through issues to have goals via intentions so they can determine if they are actually growing in the direction they desire. 

 

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Episode 47: Unhealthy Positivity

After walking the dog this morning, Thomas shares a coaching session where the survivors belief in being positive were actually hindering and prolonging his recover. Too much of a good thing! 

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Episode 46: Coaching Survivor Learned Helplessness

This morning Thomas discusses a coaching session from last night that had him frustrated for a bit as he worked with a survivor stuck in learned helplessness state.  Listen to the outcome and takeaways. 

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Episode 45: Getting Ready

Thomas is all over the place with excitement as he gets ready for the next course and coaching on April 19th. He talks about several coaching sessions this week on  language to define, feeling dirty, voices of the abuser, mental health labels, and trauma disconnecting survivors from self. 

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Episode 44: Consistency Compounds

Happy morning! Thomas shares an uplifting report from survivor Jeremy concerning the ecourse material and gives Jeremy a  shout out of a few more points on being resilient and continuing to do the work. 

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Episode 43: WITMYS (What I Tell My Younger Self)- Part 2

Thomas shares as he chops it up with a group, WITMYS A group that focuses on overcoming the obstacles in life. He is asked the question, "What I'd Tell My Younger Self?" It's a simple candid conversation between three guys trying to put more positivity into the world of dealing with trauma and healing. 

 

Episode 42: WITMYS (What I Tell My Younger Self)- Part 1

Thomas shares as he chops it up with a group, WITMYS.com  A group that focuses on overcoming the obstacles in life. He is asked the question, "What I'd Tell My Younger Self?" It's a simple candid conversation between three guys trying to put more positivity into the world of dealing with trauma and healing. 

Episode 41: When Will the Abuse Stop Affecting Me? When Does It End?

Thomas candidly shares a recent moment.  He was asked by a national organization to participant in a PSA. When he could not contribute, hear the insight he learned about his childhood sexual abuse. When does it end?

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Episode 40: Understanding the Power of Limiting Beliefs

Thomas uncovers understanding the power of limiting beliefs by sharing the story of a Hollywood stuntman he coached, who feared walking into certain rooms in his home. He drops some knowledge from neuroscience on why limiting beliefs are so entrenched and powerful.

Episode 39: Have You Ever Been Arrested or Detained?

Thomas introduces via a life story about the developmental stages that many survivors are locked or arrested in CPTSD.  He lists the developmental stages asking survivors to examine their current lives. He talks about a Masterclass he's putting together for this year. 

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Episode 37: Accelerating recovery by understanding neuroscience

Thomas is asked the question, "Why do you talk so much about neuroscience in your coaching of male survivors?" Thomas breaks down his reasons and shares 4 crucial neuroscience points that may help male survivors or anybody work through issues.   www.safeplaceformen.com 

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Episode 36: No New Year Resolutions -Reenactment

Thomas shares coaching strategies to achieve progress in 2021.  He discusses reenactment trauma and solutions while celebrating 2021 as his 20th year in working with male survivors.  www.safeplaceformen.com 

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Episode 35: New Year's Eve Dump

Big Thank You 30 Days Our Story Project. Thomas drops his last bit of knowledge for 2020.  The new year workshop, male gender socialization and abuse, and a plea to make that change. He's already working on another big project for 2021. 

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Episode 31: Dealing with Critical Inner Voice

Coach Thomas discussed the No. 2 issue that often keep male survivors from thriving, the inner critical voice.  He shares a little psych 101 to explain getting stuck and provides a few strategies to use to overcome.  www.safeplaceformen.com 

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Episode 30: Rebuilding Trust After Sexual Trauma

Coach Thomas drops some knowledge on thriving and starting to rebuild trust after the sexual abuse. If you're caught in the DEFCON high trust wall, he provides a few insights to navigate. www.safeplaceformen.com 

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Episode 29: Sexual Trauma w/Spiritual and Religious Narratives

Thomas is asked to discuss working with male survivors whose sexual trauma and recovery has religious or spiritual undertones. Shout out to the Philippines podcast listeners growing numbers.  www.safeplacemen.com 

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