Safe Place For Men Podcast
Episode 67: Stuck: Adult on the outside, not inside

Episode 67: Stuck: Adult on the outside, not inside

August 5, 2022

Today's podcast: Some of us look grown up but aren't. We walk around with suits and briefcases and car keys and annuities. But inside, we are five. Ten. Twelve. Sixteen. This morning Coach T discusses arrested development where sexual trauma disrupted certain emotional development stages and we get stuck. 

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Episode 66: Survivors Turning Chronic Stress into Optimal Stress

Episode 66: Survivors Turning Chronic Stress into Optimal Stress

July 22, 2022

This morning Coach T shares working with a client and turning chronic stress into optimal stress. He discusses a bit of neuroscience of riding the wave of adaptive stress to rest and recovery.  He introduces Raj, the new digital magazine coming, and building more resources for male survivors.

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Episode 65: Tribute to Transition

Episode 65: Tribute to Transition

July 15, 2022

This morning Coach T pays a little tribute to two military survivors who have transitioned, rest in power. Men who were part of the Safe Place workshop and coaching crew recently passed.  How sharing pieces of their story and working on the issues brought more freedom and sense of justice. 

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Episode 64: What It Takes 2: Measuring Your Progress

Episode 64: What It Takes 2: Measuring Your Progress

July 2, 2022

This morning Coach T picks up on the second part of What It Takes!  He shares signs and milestones to measure your healing from the trauma of the sexual abuse.  He also talks about the the "Toddler's Credo" to help you as you work through issues. Also the possibility of doing live podcasts for insider members, where can call in and ask questions live. 

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Episode 63:What it Takes to Start Healing

Episode 63:What it Takes to Start Healing

June 25, 2022

How long have you been procrastinating really working through the abuse issue?  It Takes What I Takes to Heal: As a result of emotional trauma, we begin to feel numb, disconnected and lose our trust in others. It can take a lot of time for this pain to go away, and for us to feel safe again. If the trauma we’ve experienced is psychological, we may suffer from troubling memories, anxiety and emotions. Coach T starts with 5 steps to begin. 

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Episode 62: Link Sexual Addiction & Abuse

Episode 62: Link Sexual Addiction & Abuse

April 15, 2022

Coach T asked by an insider about random sexual encounters he’s facing and what's possibly going on in the brain. Coach T will be heading over to the Insider’s Podcast to share on links between sexual addictions and our sexual abuse.  Subscribe if you haven't.  Also he shared more about the in-person July 7-9 workshop

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Episode 61: Betrayal Trauma

Episode 61: Betrayal Trauma

April 1, 2022

Without any caffeine, Coach T energetically discusses the next in-person workshop coming up in July 7-9, being interviewed by an actor for role portrayal as survivor, and the psychological aftermath of betrayal trauma that can follow years later after the abuse.

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Episode 60B: Explosive rebuttal

Episode 60B: Explosive rebuttal

February 22, 2022

Yes, it's Tuesday!  This is A 1-off episode where Coach Thomas shares the reaction backlash to the previous episode. He shares the  insider's topic of survivors unknowingly become the abuser during the healing process. for this Friday. 

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Episode 60: Disclosure: My partner  loves me,  but can’t  support me anymore

Episode 60: Disclosure: My partner loves me, but can’t support me anymore

February 11, 2022

Today's podcast coach Thomas receives email concerning a survivor who disclosed to his partner who loves him. However, the partner just cannot support him on this journey at this level any longer. He gives a few tips on disclosure and dealing with this situation.

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Episode 59: New Year: Why Do I Love My Abuser

Episode 59: New Year: Why Do I Love My Abuser

January 8, 2022

Happy New Year.  This session Coach T shares a recent client session where the survivor suffered the cognitive dissonance of having empathy and attachment to the individual who sexually abused him. He shares 3 things to consider in experiencing challenging process. 

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Episode 58: Healing Crisis After A BreakThrough

Episode 58: Healing Crisis After A BreakThrough

December 17, 2021

In his last podcast for 2021, Coach Thomas shares common survivor issues he's experienced on his road trip the past month in hypnotherapy sessions with clients. They experience major phenomenal breakthroughs, but similar to overcoming physical maladies, feel a bit worse after being on cloud nine. 

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Episode 57: Insider‘s Surviving Holidays

Episode 57: Insider‘s Surviving Holidays

November 24, 2021

Coach Thomas awakes early this morning to share a few things on his mind for survivors in making it through the holidays.  

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Episode 55: We‘re Moving Platforms

Episode 55: We‘re Moving Platforms

November 5, 2021

Coach T shares the next stages and Patreon-like platform where the  program is moving.  He shares how Insiders will be for those survivors that are now ready to get their feet wet.  He will not totally disappear from this podcast platform, and occasionally drop in from time to time. 

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Episode 54: Jumpstart Your Healing CPR

Episode 54: Jumpstart Your Healing CPR

October 5, 2021

Coach T needs a chill pill this morning.  He returned from the conference on fire. He shares meeting with survivors in Dallas, TX and the almost mini-workshop he did on the fly. Also the Be Seen, Be Heard Workshop he's going to do November 18-20, 2021 in Sacramento, limited to 8 participants who really want to be there to work some abuse challenges.  Contact him and register.  #safeplaceformen  www.safeplaceformen.com 

Episode 53: I Can‘t Remember All the Details

Episode 53: I Can‘t Remember All the Details

September 10, 2021

Coach T starts with a hectic morning,  his Hollywood survivor guest is no show, a family member experiencing COVID on a ventilator, and a survivor stressed because he cannot remember all the details of the childhood sexual abuse.  Coach T does a quick refresher on fragmented memory.  He invites survivors in the Dallas, TX area to meet Oct. 1-3 during his speaking engagement.

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Episode 52:  the gift that keeps stealing and taking

Episode 52: the gift that keeps stealing and taking

September 3, 2021

This morning Coach T shares a letter from the partner of his client. The partner shares the devastating havoc the porn and sexual abuse created in their relationship. Coach T shares the strategies he used to get results with this client where others could not. The next cohort for the program starts next week.  www.safeplaceformen.com/program

 

Episode 49: Understand Your Critic

Episode 49: Understand Your Critic

August 6, 2021

Coach T us up with his latest exploits and the launching of Safe Corner on Instagram.  Smoke from the surrounding fires. How the online coaching course is accelerating recovery time. Then he drops a little knowledge on understanding your inner critic.  Find the link to the video for Safe Corner on his instagram page.  Cheers!  https://www.instagram.com/safeplaceformen/

 

Episode 48: Breaking My Abuse Code

Episode 48: Breaking My Abuse Code

June 17, 2021

Thomas talks about the next online course & coaching program being launched.  He shares his 20 recovery intentions.  He encourages all survivors working through issues to have goals via intentions so they can determine if they are actually growing in the direction they desire. 

 

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Episode 47: Unhealthy Positivity

Episode 47: Unhealthy Positivity

May 20, 2021

After walking the dog this morning, Thomas shares a coaching session where the survivors belief in being positive were actually hindering and prolonging his recover. Too much of a good thing! 

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Episode 46: Coaching  Survivor Learned Helplessness

Episode 46: Coaching Survivor Learned Helplessness

April 22, 2021

This morning Thomas discusses a coaching session from last night that had him frustrated for a bit as he worked with a survivor stuck in learned helplessness state.  Listen to the outcome and takeaways. 

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