Adult men rising above our childhood, adolescent or adult sexual abuse trauma experiences
Today's podcast: Some of us look grown up but aren't. We walk around with suits and briefcases and car keys and annuities. But inside, we are five. Ten. Twelve. Sixteen. This morning Coach T discusses arrested development where sexual trauma disrupted certain emotional development stages and we get stuck.
This morning Coach T shares working with a client and turning chronic stress into optimal stress. He discusses a bit of neuroscience of riding the wave of adaptive stress to rest and recovery. He introduces Raj, the new digital magazine coming, and building more resources for male survivors.
This morning Coach T pays a little tribute to two military survivors who have transitioned, rest in power. Men who were part of the Safe Place workshop and coaching crew recently passed. How sharing pieces of their story and working on the issues brought more freedom and sense of justice.
This morning Coach T picks up on the second part of What It Takes! He shares signs and milestones to measure your healing from the trauma of the sexual abuse. He also talks about the the "Toddler's Credo" to help you as you work through issues. Also the possibility of doing live podcasts for insider members, where can call in and ask questions live.
How long have you been procrastinating really working through the abuse issue? It Takes What I Takes to Heal: As a result of emotional trauma, we begin to feel numb, disconnected and lose our trust in others. It can take a lot of time for this pain to go away, and for us to feel safe again. If the trauma we’ve experienced is psychological, we may suffer from troubling memories, anxiety and emotions. Coach T starts with 5 steps to begin.
Coach T asked by an insider about random sexual encounters he’s facing and what's possibly going on in the brain. Coach T will be heading over to the Insider’s Podcast to share on links between sexual addictions and our sexual abuse. Subscribe if you haven't. Also he shared more about the in-person July 7-9 workshop
Without any caffeine, Coach T energetically discusses the next in-person workshop coming up in July 7-9, being interviewed by an actor for role portrayal as survivor, and the psychological aftermath of betrayal trauma that can follow years later after the abuse.
Yes, it's Tuesday! This is A 1-off episode where Coach Thomas shares the reaction backlash to the previous episode. He shares the insider's topic of survivors unknowingly become the abuser during the healing process. for this Friday.
Today's podcast coach Thomas receives email concerning a survivor who disclosed to his partner who loves him. However, the partner just cannot support him on this journey at this level any longer. He gives a few tips on disclosure and dealing with this situation.
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Happy New Year. This session Coach T shares a recent client session where the survivor suffered the cognitive dissonance of having empathy and attachment to the individual who sexually abused him. He shares 3 things to consider in experiencing challenging process.
In his last podcast for 2021, Coach Thomas shares common survivor issues he's experienced on his road trip the past month in hypnotherapy sessions with clients. They experience major phenomenal breakthroughs, but similar to overcoming physical maladies, feel a bit worse after being on cloud nine.
Coach Thomas awakes early this morning to share a few things on his mind for survivors in making it through the holidays.
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Coach T shares the next stages and Patreon-like platform where the program is moving. He shares how Insiders will be for those survivors that are now ready to get their feet wet. He will not totally disappear from this podcast platform, and occasionally drop in from time to time.
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Coach T needs a chill pill this morning. He returned from the conference on fire. He shares meeting with survivors in Dallas, TX and the almost mini-workshop he did on the fly. Also the Be Seen, Be Heard Workshop he's going to do November 18-20, 2021 in Sacramento, limited to 8 participants who really want to be there to work some abuse challenges. Contact him and register. #safeplaceformen www.safeplaceformen.com
Coach T starts with a hectic morning, his Hollywood survivor guest is no show, a family member experiencing COVID on a ventilator, and a survivor stressed because he cannot remember all the details of the childhood sexual abuse. Coach T does a quick refresher on fragmented memory. He invites survivors in the Dallas, TX area to meet Oct. 1-3 during his speaking engagement.
This morning Coach T shares a letter from the partner of his client. The partner shares the devastating havoc the porn and sexual abuse created in their relationship. Coach T shares the strategies he used to get results with this client where others could not. The next cohort for the program starts next week. www.safeplaceformen.com/program
Coach T us up with his latest exploits and the launching of Safe Corner on Instagram. Smoke from the surrounding fires. How the online coaching course is accelerating recovery time. Then he drops a little knowledge on understanding your inner critic. Find the link to the video for Safe Corner on his instagram page. Cheers! https://www.instagram.com/safeplaceformen/
Thomas talks about the next online course & coaching program being launched. He shares his 20 recovery intentions. He encourages all survivors working through issues to have goals via intentions so they can determine if they are actually growing in the direction they desire.
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After walking the dog this morning, Thomas shares a coaching session where the survivors belief in being positive were actually hindering and prolonging his recover. Too much of a good thing!
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This morning Thomas discusses a coaching session from last night that had him frustrated for a bit as he worked with a survivor stuck in learned helplessness state. Listen to the outcome and takeaways.
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