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Adult men rising above our childhood, adolescent or adult sexual abuse trauma experiences
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Saturday Nov 11, 2023
Saturday Nov 11, 2023
Today Coach Thomas discusses a prevalent issue that came up in several male survivor coaching sessions last week. You are not alone!
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Friday Nov 03, 2023
Friday Nov 03, 2023
It's that time of year when organizations as for interviews to help survivors as they struggle to make it through the holidays. Hope you enjoy the interview. Remember that until you take the steps to heal you stay in the same place.
Saturday Jun 10, 2023
Saturday Jun 10, 2023
Coach Thomas discuss C-PTSD and workshop in Fiji on Sept 21-24, 2023.
Friday Aug 26, 2022
Friday Aug 26, 2022
Coach T shares some raw live moments of his trip back home last week where the sexual abuse occurred, encounter with family perpetrator, and pain of protecting family member. It's real and raw. Safeplace digital magazine launch on Sept 2, planning workshop in Canada.
Friday Aug 05, 2022
Friday Aug 05, 2022
Today's podcast: Some of us look grown up but aren't. We walk around with suits and briefcases and car keys and annuities. But inside, we are five. Ten. Twelve. Sixteen. This morning Coach T discusses arrested development where sexual trauma disrupted certain emotional development stages and we get stuck.
Friday Jul 22, 2022
Friday Jul 22, 2022
This morning Coach T shares working with a client and turning chronic stress into optimal stress. He discusses a bit of neuroscience of riding the wave of adaptive stress to rest and recovery. He introduces Raj, the new digital magazine coming, and building more resources for male survivors.
Friday Jul 15, 2022
Friday Jul 15, 2022
This morning Coach T pays a little tribute to two military survivors who have transitioned, rest in power. Men who were part of the Safe Place workshop and coaching crew recently passed. How sharing pieces of their story and working on the issues brought more freedom and sense of justice.
Saturday Jul 02, 2022
Saturday Jul 02, 2022
This morning Coach T picks up on the second part of What It Takes! He shares signs and milestones to measure your healing from the trauma of the sexual abuse. He also talks about the the "Toddler's Credo" to help you as you work through issues. Also the possibility of doing live podcasts for insider members, where can call in and ask questions live.
Saturday Jun 25, 2022
Saturday Jun 25, 2022
How long have you been procrastinating really working through the abuse issue? It Takes What I Takes to Heal: As a result of emotional trauma, we begin to feel numb, disconnected and lose our trust in others. It can take a lot of time for this pain to go away, and for us to feel safe again. If the trauma we’ve experienced is psychological, we may suffer from troubling memories, anxiety and emotions. Coach T starts with 5 steps to begin.
Friday Apr 15, 2022
Friday Apr 15, 2022
Coach T asked by an insider about random sexual encounters he’s facing and what's possibly going on in the brain. Coach T will be heading over to the Insider’s Podcast to share on links between sexual addictions and our sexual abuse. Subscribe if you haven't. Also he shared more about the in-person July 7-9 workshop
Friday Apr 01, 2022
Friday Apr 01, 2022
Without any caffeine, Coach T energetically discusses the next in-person workshop coming up in July 7-9, being interviewed by an actor for role portrayal as survivor, and the psychological aftermath of betrayal trauma that can follow years later after the abuse.
Tuesday Feb 22, 2022
Tuesday Feb 22, 2022
Yes, it's Tuesday! This is A 1-off episode where Coach Thomas shares the reaction backlash to the previous episode. He shares the insider's topic of survivors unknowingly become the abuser during the healing process. for this Friday.
Friday Feb 11, 2022
Friday Feb 11, 2022
Today's podcast coach Thomas receives email concerning a survivor who disclosed to his partner who loves him. However, the partner just cannot support him on this journey at this level any longer. He gives a few tips on disclosure and dealing with this situation.
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Saturday Jan 08, 2022
Saturday Jan 08, 2022
Happy New Year. This session Coach T shares a recent client session where the survivor suffered the cognitive dissonance of having empathy and attachment to the individual who sexually abused him. He shares 3 things to consider in experiencing challenging process.
Friday Dec 17, 2021
Friday Dec 17, 2021
In his last podcast for 2021, Coach Thomas shares common survivor issues he's experienced on his road trip the past month in hypnotherapy sessions with clients. They experience major phenomenal breakthroughs, but similar to overcoming physical maladies, feel a bit worse after being on cloud nine.
Wednesday Nov 24, 2021
Wednesday Nov 24, 2021
Coach Thomas awakes early this morning to share a few things on his mind for survivors in making it through the holidays.
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Friday Nov 05, 2021
Friday Nov 05, 2021
Coach T shares the next stages and Patreon-like platform where the program is moving. He shares how Insiders will be for those survivors that are now ready to get their feet wet. He will not totally disappear from this podcast platform, and occasionally drop in from time to time.
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Tuesday Oct 05, 2021
Tuesday Oct 05, 2021
Coach T needs a chill pill this morning. He returned from the conference on fire. He shares meeting with survivors in Dallas, TX and the almost mini-workshop he did on the fly. Also the Be Seen, Be Heard Workshop he's going to do November 18-20, 2021 in Sacramento, limited to 8 participants who really want to be there to work some abuse challenges. Contact him and register. #safeplaceformen www.safeplaceformen.com
Friday Sep 10, 2021
Friday Sep 10, 2021
Coach T starts with a hectic morning, his Hollywood survivor guest is no show, a family member experiencing COVID on a ventilator, and a survivor stressed because he cannot remember all the details of the childhood sexual abuse. Coach T does a quick refresher on fragmented memory. He invites survivors in the Dallas, TX area to meet Oct. 1-3 during his speaking engagement.
Friday Sep 03, 2021
Friday Sep 03, 2021
This morning Coach T shares a letter from the partner of his client. The partner shares the devastating havoc the porn and sexual abuse created in their relationship. Coach T shares the strategies he used to get results with this client where others could not. The next cohort for the program starts next week. www.safeplaceformen.com/program