Adult men rising above our childhood, adolescent or adult sexual abuse trauma experiences
Thomas shares as he chops it up with a group, WITMYS.com A group that focuses on overcoming the obstacles in life. He is asked the question, "What I'd Tell My Younger Self?" It's a simple candid conversation between three guys trying to put more positivity into the world of dealing with trauma and healing.
Thomas candidly shares a recent moment. He was asked by a national organization to participant in a PSA. When he could not contribute, hear the insight he learned about his childhood sexual abuse. When does it end?
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Thomas uncovers understanding the power of limiting beliefs by sharing the story of a Hollywood stuntman he coached, who feared walking into certain rooms in his home. He drops some knowledge from neuroscience on why limiting beliefs are so entrenched and powerful.
Thomas introduces via a life story about the developmental stages that many survivors are locked or arrested in CPTSD. He lists the developmental stages asking survivors to examine their current lives. He talks about a Masterclass he's putting together for this year.
Thomas is asked the question, "Why do you talk so much about neuroscience in your coaching of male survivors?" Thomas breaks down his reasons and shares 4 crucial neuroscience points that may help male survivors or anybody work through issues. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Thomas shares coaching strategies to achieve progress in 2021. He discusses reenactment trauma and solutions while celebrating 2021 as his 20th year in working with male survivors. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Big Thank You 30 Days Our Story Project. Thomas drops his last bit of knowledge for 2020. The new year workshop, male gender socialization and abuse, and a plea to make that change. He's already working on another big project for 2021.
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Coach Thomas discussed the No. 2 issue that often keep male survivors from thriving, the inner critical voice. He shares a little psych 101 to explain getting stuck and provides a few strategies to use to overcome. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Coach Thomas drops some knowledge on thriving and starting to rebuild trust after the sexual abuse. If you're caught in the DEFCON high trust wall, he provides a few insights to navigate. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Thomas is asked to discuss working with male survivors whose sexual trauma and recovery has religious or spiritual undertones. Shout out to the Philippines podcast listeners growing numbers. www.safeplacemen.com
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Thomas celebrates the success of another survivor becoming a thriver. He shares pieces of the course this new thriver reported helped him most the "Message of emotions". www.safeplaceformen.com
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Spouse of male survivor uttered the words, "Shouldn't you be over that by now!" Thomas discusses a few common misconceptions about trauma to help those who love male survivors to better understand and cope with many of the issues that come with the territory. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Continuing the "Help Me Understand" series, Thomas is asked about porn addictions, and help to understand male survivors who are abused by females. He discusses his own experience and stigma male survivors might live with being abused by female perpetrators. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Asked the question from a listener, Thomas candidly talks to those spouses, partners, family, significant others who love and are part of a male survivor's life, but might be confused or can't understand some of the issues they face. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Thomas shares how he had to flex his emotional resilience muscle this weekend to confront some issues. He discusses steps that can help survivors of sexual abuse become more resilient. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Sometimes being quarantine brings out good and bad in others. Thomas discusses how our past sexual abuse history and trauma might make us more susceptible to unconscious patterns of building relationships with abusive individuals or groups. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Extra time on your hands? Are living close quarters starting to reveal dysfunctional habits you've avoided addressing? Thomas follows-up after the coronavirus "How You Doing?" call from last night. He provides a little advice for some issues survivors are experiencing. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Thomas discusses takeaways from a coaching session where the sexually abused survivor's family re-victimized and re-traumatized him. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Is people pleasing or compliance patterns manifesting from your sexual abuse history? They used to for Thomas and a client he worked with this week. Learn about "kaput power" and one coaching technique Thomas used to help this week's male survivor. www.safeplaceformen.com
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Part 2 -Thomas shares a blast from the past. Two of the youngest guys Thomas has coached share their experience how the sexual abuse affected their lives and the transformational workshop retreat. www.safeplaceformen.com
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